Sonchik, I understand you very well. When I first read it, by ame and Janis K, I cried. That is not a solution either. It helped me through the initial shock. I was really shocked. I just didn't expect anything to happen to these two strong eagles. That wasn't very wise of me. Something can always happen ...
And of course,everyone tries to deal with the situation in their own way. I've had the experience that in the end it's easier to accept things that I can't change. It was a long way to get to grips with that. We always want to be in control ... but we don't!